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September 10, 2009

Looking back on my notes, I think Thomas benefited from an early mover advantage because I honestly cannot remember meeting him though his card indicates that I did.
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September 9, 2009

What can I say about Sheldon? Nothing, actually. He left me no message. Sheldon shared only his slightly sweet, slightly goofy name and his phone number. I have to say that his name alone if said with some humor and verve could have tempted me to call to learn more. But I have no notes about inflection so Sheldon shall have to remain a man of mystery.


September 8, 2009

Felix left me a fairly detailed message offering me the kind of information that should have made me want to call him back immediately. But somehow, despite giving me what I was looking for, Felix’s message left me cold.
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September 7, 2009

Reading over my notes for Edgar’s call has me wishing for a time machine. Sigh. But since I cannot time travel perhaps Edgar will motivate me to someday try again.
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September 6, 2009

I am not sure what Chi’s name actually was. I have an attempt at spelling it phonetically and a question mark written on his card. Chi’s message left me wondering who he was even more than his either mumbled or difficult to pronounce name.

Chi was a year younger than me and had “normal tastes and features.” And that, ladies and gentlemen, was the entirety of his message. I don’t even know where to begin with those extraordinarily brief and vague bits of information.

What I do know is that what I described as my tastes were anything but normal, I would hope. They were uniquely mine. I wanted to know what was uniquely Chi. And not giving me even a hint meant that, though I appreciate Chi calling and putting himself out there, he did not make the cut for a returned phone call.


September 5, 2009

Much like Jim, I remembered Max’s message for one stand out line in his message. Looking back I see there is much I glossed over but what I do remember really stuck with me and, looking at his card, I am reminded instantly of why I never called back.
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September 4, 2009

Danny was a fellow traveler on the personal ads road. He left me a 900 number to call and the number of his voice mailbox.

His personal stats sounded nice. Tall but not too tall. Not too skinny. Danny shared his eye and hair color which were completely meaningless but perhaps they had become regular recitations or descriptive information he felt that was worth sharing in his ad.
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